Week 4 Review: NaNoWriMo Day 28

Week 4 Review: NaNoWriMo Day 28

A review of how things went this last full week of NaNoWriMo.

Word Count Goal Per Writing Day: 2000

Actual Average Word Count Per Writing Day: 3698

Planned Writing Days: 5

Actual Writing Days: 4

Day 22 Word Count: 0

Day 23 Word Count: 0

Day 24 Word Count: 0

Day 25 Word Count: 0

Day 26 Word Count: 5302

Day 27 Word Count: 5008

Day 28 Word Count: 783

Planned Words This Week: 10000

Actual Words This Week: 11093

Planned Words So Far: 46000

Actual Words So Far: 39103

A great week for big word counts per writing day. Not so great for consistency. I am definitely down by not out. There are two days left and I know I can do it! 

40,000 Word Reward: NaNoWriMo Day 29

Nanowrimo rewards Day 29

Just a very short one today to show off my 40,000 NaNoWriMo word reward.

An anthurium:

And yes, it has warmed up quite a bit today to 0 degrees fahrenheit. Super balmy after last week’s minus 60 wind chill. Downright tropical! 

I am feverishly writing to catch up so I can get to 50,000 words tomorrow.

Wish me luck!

Here are the stats:

Progress:

Day 29 Word Count: 1177

Total Word Count: 40280

Where I Planned to Be: 48000

1667 words per day: 48343

Tomorrow’s going to be a doozy! 

Writers in Relationships: NaNoWriMo with your SO Days 22-25

Should writers date writers?

I have heard the advice that writers shouldn’t date writers. This is not advice I followed. In fact, I married one. 

My SO is also a writer. He’s already got a few books out in the wild. You might think this helps us understand each other, and in some ways it does. But in other ways, we are very, very different and often inscrutable to each other. Writers are notorious for being introverted and persnickety. We are no exception. How do you make it work when both people in the relationship are writers?

SO and I are very different writers. For one thing, he has never done NaNoWriMo. But this year was different. I talked him into participating in NaNo! Sort of…

Some people write with fountain pens and composition books and some writers need robots to tell them to write. (Shout out to WriterBot!)

How to Do NaNoWriMo with Your SO

I love tracking my word counts and setting goals and in some ways can be very methodical about my spreadsheets. I track what times of day I write best, schedule when I will take breaks, and give myself daily quotas in terms of what I want to achieve in my writing that day.

This is not how my SO writes. He doesn’t count or track or anything like that. So for him, “doing NaNo together” just meant that he started a new novel at the beginning of November and has been making extra effort to find the time to work on it this month. It’s actually been quite successful.

I write almost exclusively on the computer. My sentences never come out in the order I want them, and the ability to copy paste and move things around as I am writing is important to me. SO writes ON PAPER! On paper! Like it is 1952! With a fountain pen, no less! When I try to write on paper, it’s a hot mess that not even I can decipher. 

When SO writes on paper, he writes IN ORDER! Like, the writing comes to him in chronological order. This seems like magic to me. My writing comes in fits, small snippets of scenes or lines or images that I don’t even know where they go in the book, but I do know they are not in order. I mean, this man sits down and begins by writing the beginning, and then he writes what’s next and then what comes after that. And, he does all this on paper with a pen and does not erase or scratch out anything. Like, what kind of sorcery is this, sir?!

He’s also a solo writer. His writing is very much a solitary activity, and in general he is not as much of a joiner as I am. I often tease him about being the man alone at the isolated cabin writing by candlelight, which was the case when I met him. He would write me messages (sometimes send me letters ON PAPER, I mean, not to beat the dead horse, but whaaat?) about feeding the woodstove between scenes and writing without electricity and this is just mind-boggling to me.

I find it very motivating to write with people. I love the community of NaNoWriMo. I force my friends to write with me to hold me accountable. I do writing sprints with sprinting groups and generally that outside accountability is big motivation to me. 

So, when SO says he’s doing NaNo this year, for him that doesn’t mean joining the Alaska NaNo Discord and tracking his word counts on the NaNo site. Instead, it just means sitting down with his fountain pen and his paper as much as he can in November. 

My plant, which was my 10,000 word reward, being used like a folder in elementary school, making sure he doesn’t copy my answers.

How to Date a Writer

But even with all these differences we make it work. 

Writing is like a third person in our relationship, our polyamorous unicorn whom we both adore, but who we each make out with in very different ways. The mutual love of writing brings us together, and helps us understand each other.

The key to not letting it get in the way is just that we each know that the other cannot survive without writing. We try to make sure the other gets their words in in the same way that we make sure the other eats and sleeps.

So, all month we have been sitting down across the table from each other. I set up my candle and my plants all over the place and he tries to scooch them onto my half of the table without me noticing and we each get words out in our very different ways. I make my spreadsheets and count my words and write through my nonchronological poetic fog and he fills his fountain pen and writes the scene that comes next in a composition book. 

And it’s made us closer.

Do you all have people in your life who just get it? Are there people out there who understand your need for making art? 

Here are the days’ stats for the last few days: 

Progress:

Day 22 Word Count: 0

Day 23 Word Count: 0

Day 24 Word Count: 0

Day 25 Word Count: 0

Total Word Count: 28010

Where I Planned to Be: 40000

1667 words per day: 41675

I had planned on taking the 24th and 25th off because of Thanksgiving, but this week went sideways. Hoping I am going to be able to catch up some this weekend! 

Week 3 Review: NaNoWriMo Day 21

Another weekly NaNoWriMo check-in!

Word Count Goal Per Writing Day: 2000

Actual Average Word Count Per Writing Day: 2918

Planned Writing Days: 6

Planned Writing Days: 4

Day 15 Word Count: 0

Day 16 Word Count: 0

Day 17 Word Count: 719

Day 18 Word Count: 3005

Day 19 Word Count: 0

Day 20 Word Count: 3896

Day 21 Word Count: 4050

Planned Words This Week: 12000

Actual Words This Week: 11670

Planned Words So Far: 36000

Actual Words So Far: 28010

I was so close to my word goal this week! 

Again, I wrote less days than I intended. Maybe 4 days a week is my process? But, I also had much bigger word counts per day than I planned. They were not enough to catch me up, but they are definitely moving me closer. 

How did Week 3 go for you?

Rest and Double Down: NaNoWriMo Day 5

rest and double down nanowrimo how to take a break

How do you decide when to take a break and when to push yourself?

This is something that I often struggle with, and today is no exception. 

NaNoWriMo forces me to wrestle with this in especially poignant ways.

I’ll give my progress first, so you can see the dilemma:

Progress:

Day 4 Word Count: 1516

Total Word Count: 6684

Where I Planned to Be: 8000

1667 words per day: 6668

My plan for this month was to write 2000 words per day on writing days so that I could take time to spend with my family on Fridays and also have Thanksgiving off. 

Right now, I am on track for the official NaNoWriMo count, which counts 1667 words per day (4 days x 1667 = 6668), but you have to write all 30 days without fail. I have met myself and I know I need some breaks, hence the 2000 per day.

Today is Friday. I had planned to take today off. I am a mere 1316 words away from being right on target. I know I can easily reach that word count today if I skip the pizza prep and just show up for dinner. But then, I will not have taken the day off. 

It is tempting to get on target.  I could catch up in an hour or two, probably. 

But like I said, I know I need breaks. Things need to rattle around in my head so that they can come out the way I want them to. And I know that when I don’t take breaks, the muse or writer’s block or anxiety or whatever you want to call it forces me to. I will have major FOMO as my kid and husband hang out together. I’ll resent NaNoWriMo and writing in general, and the block will snowball. 

So, I am trying to stay on top of it. I am giving myself a pizza and movie night, even though I am not on track, so that tomorrow, I am refreshed and can go at it hard.

Tomorrow is Double Down Day in the Heart Breathings Word Sprints Facebook Group (highly recommend), and my small group of friends is meeting to write, and my local NaNo group is meeting for a virtual write-in, so my plan is to jump on a little bit of each of those and catch up. 

My goal is to write 3316 words tomorrow. Tonight, I get pizza and wine! 

How do you decide when to let yourself rest and when to push yourself? Do you have any tips to make the most of resting?

Why do NaNoWriMo? NaNoWriMo Day 4

why do nanowrimo? Nanowrimo day 4

It’s a new moon today. A time for listening within. A time for setting intentions. It has been making me think a lot about my whys. Why do NaNoWriMo? Why write? What exactly am I hoping to accomplish?

As the days get shorter and my energy wanes, it seems a herculean task to expect myself to write more than I do at any other time of year. Especially as the to-dos pile up with the holidays and the end of the year.

And yet…

I still do NaNoWriMo. Even after losing the first six times, like a glutton for pain and disappointment, I still wanted to do it. Why?

Why do NaNoWriMo?

I have heard people give a lot of reasons about why they do NaNo.

  1. Camaraderie. If you ask a WriMo why they do it, so many will answer that it’s the camaraderie. And the community of it is huge. There are tons of authortubers who take part. Facebook and Instagram are covered in it. There are groups for local participants, groups for participants in different genres. You can go around the world on discord or write for 100 hours straight on youtube. Even as an introvert, you feel like you are part of something larger.
  1. The Challenge. Sometimes you just need something to kick you into overdrive. I love a challenge (see my posts on writing challenges and submission bonanzas) and I think of NaNoWriMo as a dare. Who said I couldn’t finish a novel in a month? I’ll show them! 
  1. Taking yourself more seriously. You can’t sit around waiting for inspiration to strike when you are on a deadline like this, even if it is self-imposed. You just need to get your butt in the chair and do the best work you know how to do. Get down to business.
  1. Taking yourself less seriously. This is maybe counterintuitive, to take on a big challenge like this to take yourself less seriously, but hear me out. You cannot be precious about your words and your work when you are trying to write a novel in a month. 
  1. Finally finishing something. While I think most winners of NaNoWriMo come out on December 1st with a completely ready-to-go book, I do think the premise requires you to stick with one project. You can’t follow your shiny object syndrome and finish a novel in a month. And then, once you are 50,000 words in, you might as well just finish. 

Why do I do NaNoWriMo?

We all have very different reasons for coming to the page, and NaNoWriMo is no exception. For me personally, it is about building my consistency as a writer. I have been writing stories since I could write, and yet it has never been consistent. My writing always seemed best when it was bursting out of me, and I just had to wait for that to come. I could sit down and vomit up something in 15 minutes that would be beautiful or sit down and work for hours on something that was crap. I felt like my writing, my muse, my creativity was not something I could control myself.

But I am working on developing a different relationship with my writing. I am learning to create the space for the writing to come, to allow it even in the quiet times, to listen for it even when I am not inspired. And NaNoWriMo helps me build that muscle. The camaraderie and the challenge and the feeling of accomplishment are awesome. But for me, the biggest gain is the exercise, the practice, the slow and steady development of my ability to sit down each day and create. 

What’s your why?

Here’s my update

Progress:

Day 3 Word Count: 1089

Total Word Count: 5169

This puts me just a little bit behind where I had hoped to be today. But also, just this much is more than I wrote in all of October, and on track according to the 1667 words everyday math. So I am happy with that, but I am going to have to put in extra work today if I want to take give myself a break on Friday! 

How to Set Daily Word Count Goals: NaNoWriMo Day 3

How to set Daily Word Count Goals Nanowrimo

How many words do you really need to write per day to win NaNoWriMo? Setting daily word count goals might not be as straightforward as it seems at first.

The measurable goal of NaNoWriMo is to write 50,000 words in the month of November. That’s 1667 words per day for all thirty days. But how many words do you need to write to win NaNoWriMo if you are not a supercomputer who is going to write the exact same amount each day?

Maybe you are one of those super-people who are actually going to write 1667 words every day of November. And if you are — way to go! That’s amazing! But if you are like me, you probably need to figure out how many words you need to write each writing day to win Nanowrimo.

Let’s face it, life does not necessarily stop because you are working on a novel. There are still chores and birthdays and turkeys to think about. You might be able to write 1667 words 6 days a week, and then if one day that week doesn’t go like all the rest, you are behind. 

However, if you can take all of the chores and birthdays and turkeys into consideration as you track your words, you are going to be in a great position to win NaNoWriMo.

How to set daily word count goals.

  1. Look at your average weeks. Be honest with yourself. How do your days usually go? Do you need a day off a week for chores and errands? Do you know that once a week you are generally out of commission, because of health, or someone who needs you? Are your Tuesdays already all booked? Subtract all the days each week that you know you will probably not have time or space to write.
  1. Look at the month of November. What commitments do you already have? Are there birthdays or work deadlines or holidays that might take away time from your writing? Make sure you subtract those days too. 
  1. Add up the days you have left.
  1. Are all your days equal? If you want to be even more precise, you can look at how different your days might be. Maybe on Saturdays you can spend twice as much time writing. Or maybe you know you can devote a lot of time to your novel over Thanksgiving weekend. Whatever it is, think about whether there are days that you know you will be able to give more. If you know you will be able can write double or triple a normal day’s work, you can double or triple those particular days. 
  1. Divide 50,000 by the number of days you have left.

For me, it looks like this: 

  1. Fridays are family days for me, and I want to honor that even as I focus on my writing. So all four Fridays are not writing days. (30 days in November – 4 Fridays = 26 writing days)
  2. I am not writing on Thanksgiving. I love me some cooking, and I intend to spend the whole day enjoying making a feast. (26 writing days – 1 holiday = 25 writing days)
  3. 25 writing days left!
  4. I don’t have any days where I know for sure that I will be able to do more. Hopefully there are days when more than average gets done, but for me, I can’t count on it, so my count remains the same. 25 writing days.
  5. 50,000 words ÷ 25 writing days = 2000 words per day.

You can see that this is actually quite a bit more than the “official” 1667 per day that is needed, so if I had been doing only 1667 per day, I would fall behind the first Friday that I spend time with my family. This means I would feel guilty, either about not writing, or about not guarding that time with my family. I used to feel like I was always needing to choose between family and writing. But, if I plan ahead of time, I can do a few more words each day and have guilt-free family pizza and movie nights. 

Speaking of which, I have hit almost exactly 2000 words each day so far for NaNoWriMo, so I know I am on-target and can take my Fridays off to spend time with my family. (So far!)

Here are yesterday’s stats:

Progress:

Day 1 Word Count: 2037

Total Word Count: 4079

I am still on track! I swear, this feels like my best start to NaNoWriMo yet!

How are things going for you?

Planning and Goal Setting for Writers: A Review of HB90 Bootcamp

Planning and Goal Setting for Writers: A Review of Sarra Cannon’s HB90
A Review of HB90 Bootcamp: A Planner for Writers
A Planner for Depression and Anxiety: A Review of HB90 Bootcamp

The Lightning Droplets review of HB90 Bootcamp, created by Sarra Cannon of Heart Breathings. 

Learn to create writing goals you can stick to using this planner for writers. This is a review of HB90 Bootcamp, a system for planning your writing goals, finding motivation, and creating a writing routine that lasts. This is a planner for writers but is also a planner that helps with depression and anxiety. 

#writinggoals #goalsetting #planners #mentalhealth #indieauthors

Writing can be lonely, y’all. It can be a very long slog with not a lot of recognition and no small wins along the way. I can be awash in a sea of ideas one day and swamped in petty author “to-dos” the next. Need to make an author website. What about that sequel to my memoir rattling around in my brain? Often, when I sit down I feel so overwhelmed by the amount of things I could be doing that I freeze up and do nothing at all. 

But I’ve found something that’s helping. It’s not a magic pill, but it feels like I am training myself to be more purposeful in how I spend my days, and making it just a little bit easier to sit down and get started. And I feel these little nudges making a difference.

What is HB90?

HB90 stands for Heart Breathings 90. It’s a 90-day planning system designed for writers and creative entrepreneurs. It uses a lot of psychological principles to help you keep motivated and take actionable steps toward your dreams. 

It includes a planner and a whole support and motivation system, with kanban boards, rewards, community for accountability, and a whole process to bang out your hopes and tasks for each quarter.

For me, this system works on two different levels. It’s nice to have a planner that is geared for writers, but the reason this works is that the process is based on proven principles from psychology. It actually looks a lot like cognitive behavioral therapy, but in the form of a planner (hello, markers and washi tape!).

Sarra Cannon, the creator of this system, is an indie writer who has published more than 25 novels. She’s also very open about the fact that she has dealt with depression and anxiety; this planning system was born out of that struggle. So HB90 is geared toward writers and creative entrepreneurs, but I personally have noticed that it is especially helpful in dealing with depression and anxiety. The system that Sarra has developed to help her through mental health issues is also helping me!

A Planner for Writers

HB90 is first and foremost a planner system that’s designed with writers in mind. There are pages to plan your work in progress and keep track of your word count, etc. A lot of Sarra’s videos explain things from the point of view of a writer, using writer’s goals and tasks as examples. But, I do think this would work for any kind of creative or entrepreneurial endeavor.

If you are trying to create a writing life, you know it can be hard to find the time, pick the projects, think about publication or marketing. This is a system that takes the lonely, scattered bits of being a writer and helps you shape them into a puzzle that can reveal your ideal life. 

It’s a planner that takes into consideration both the artistic side of writing and the goal-oriented business side, and creates a balance between the two. There is a part of me that feels like my writing is somehow sacred and should not be measured. However, I’ve found that, for me, the advantage of using this kind of goal-oriented approach is that it gives me milestones along the way down the long, lonely road of writing a novel so that I can see the progress I’m making and celebrate my wins. This has been keeping me motivated and more consistent in my writing routine, which is a boon for my creativity and the muse.

A Planner to Help with Depression and Anxiety

Sarra Cannon is graciously candid about her struggles with mental health issues on her youtube channel and also on her instagram account. Though the HB90 system is not specifically billed as a system that helps with depression and anxiety, I have found that it helps with mine, and I suspect that Sarra has developed this system as a way to deal with her own struggles. 

I have been working through the Cognitive Behavioral Theory Workbook (which I also high recommend to help with anxiety and depression) and some of the most practical and useful aspects of HB90–thinking of how to refill your well, identifying low-energy tasks, and taking time to really identify what you value, overlap with CBT. Of course, I’m no mental health expert and this isn’t medical advice. This link is pure conjecture on my part, but it’s helped me enough with my own mental health issues that I think it’s important to mention. 

What is HB90 Bootcamp?

HB90 Bootcamp is a seven-day course that walks you through a detailed process of envisioning your long term goals, prioritizing the things you need to do, looking realistically at your time, and creating a system that will support you in actually following through. It’s a course that teaches you step by step how to take on the HB90 method.

The course takes place over seven days, and each day contains a couple of hours of video and homework. The homework is all encapsulated in the planner that comes with the course, so it is very much like a workbook that you can look back on throughout the quarter. Each step of the way, the videos and workbook show you the reasoning behind the process and alternative ways to think about each step, which helps make the system very customizable. 

Things I Love about It

It actually comes with a lot. 

I have seen other five-day or weeklong courses that only come with a bit of instruction or work each day. This course comes with more than an hour of video every day, the planner, the facebook accountability group, a workbook to envision your ideal life, and a live kickoff call. 

The value in this really comes with the fact that you are then welcome to join every quarter. So every quarter, you can go through the process again, re-examine your goals and your vision for your life, and plan out the next 90 days so you can take the steps you need to to get there! 

The system is flexible. 

I have been doing the HB90 system for over a year now and every quarter I have been able to tailor it to my specific needs that quarter. I have done digital kanban boards, in-planner kanbans for when I travel, checklists, different kinds of reward systems. Each quarter I can see better which parts of it motivate me and which parts I can leave by the wayside. 

One thing that I really love about Sarra Cannon is that there are tons of levels at which you can engage, like just buying the planner, or following some of the planning advice on her youtube channel, all the way to going through the bootcamp.

It really does get better each time.

This is something I’ve heard Sarra say a few times, and I have to admit I rolled my eyes the first time I heard it. This month, I will be doing the course for my fifth time, and it really has gotten better each time. Each quarter I can say that my vision for my life becomes more clear, what I am trying to do and why becomes more clear, and the things that will help bring me toward those goals become more clear. 

What’s Difficult about It 

It asks hard questions.

Honestly, I struggled with whether to list this as a thing I love or a difficulty. The hard questions are good. Taking a big, eagle-eyed view of where you are and where you want to be is an important step in creating the life you want, but it is difficult. If I’m being honest, this has been the most difficult part of the HB90 course for me every time I do it. It really asks you to dig deep and think about why and how you are heading in the direction you are heading. And sometimes, the answers to those questions are uncomfortable.

It takes time.

The course is structured so that it takes about a week to complete, and I would say you do need that whole week. You could watch the videos all at once, but there’s a lot of thinking and processing between videos which I think is really important. 

You don’t necessarily need to do it at the same time as everyone else. In the Facebook alumni group there are often people going through the course the first week of the next quarter or several weeks after the quarter begins, and they still get the support of the group. However, you definitely need to set aside about a week’s worth of time to do it.

The Verdict: Is It Worth It? 

Sarra Cannon has a suite of courses for writers. In addition to HB90 Bootcamp, she also has a course called Publish and Thrive; you can read my review of that course here. The thing I find interesting about Sarra’s courses is that they are packed full of information, but what is really valuable about them is the way they empower you to envision and create a writing life that sticks with you long after the information is forgotten. 

So, for me, it’s been totally worth it. I was at a point in my life where I knew something had to change. Actually, I knew everything had to change, but I had no idea where to even begin making the changes. After a year of working with this planning method, I can definitely say that I am working toward the life I want on a daily basis and thinking often about the direction I’m heading and what I want my life to look like. That has definitely been worth it. 

Planning and Goal Setting for Writers: A Review of Sarra Cannon’s HB90
A Review of HB90 Bootcamp: A Planner for Writers
A Planner for Depression and Anxiety: A Review of HB90 Bootcamp

The Lightning Droplets review of HB90 Bootcamp, created by Sarra Cannon of Heart Breathings. 

Learn to create writing goals you can stick to using this planner for writers. This is a review of HB90 Bootcamp, a system for planning your writing goals, finding motivation, and creating a writing routine that lasts. This is a planner for writers but is also a planner that helps with depression and anxiety. 

#writinggoals #goalsetting #planners #mentalhealth #indieauthors
Planning and Goal Setting for Writers: A Review of Sarra Cannon’s HB90
A Review of HB90 Bootcamp: A Planner for Writers
A Planner for Depression and Anxiety: A Review of HB90 Bootcamp

The Lightning Droplets review of HB90 Bootcamp, created by Sarra Cannon of Heart Breathings. 

Learn to create writing goals you can stick to using this planner for writers. This is a review of HB90 Bootcamp, a system for planning your writing goals, finding motivation, and creating a writing routine that lasts. This is a planner for writers but is also a planner that helps with depression and anxiety. 

#writinggoals #goalsetting #planners #mentalhealth #indieauthors

Note: This post contains affiliate links to Sarra’s courses, which means if you choose to enroll after clicking my link, I will receive a small commission at no extra charge to you. That being said, I am recommending this course because it really has changed my thinking on my writing career and helped me manage my mental health issues, so I want to spread the word!